December 26, 2010

Christmas 2010

Our Christmas morning started to London waking up in tears.  This isn't uncommon.  Sometimes she is unconsolable.  I think it has something to do with MCAD because as soon as she eats, she's fine, but she won't eat because she's so mad and crying so hard.  Vicious cycle.  Anyhoo...back to Christmas.

We thought that going in and opening presents would calm London down, so we went in and woke up Addy at about 7:30 am. 

She was so excited (and clearly, still tired) to get her easel, art stuff, and beads!


Opening presents didn't quite do the trick...still sad.

Santa brought London this cute wheely bug...still sad.

Her new baby doll did the trick...the tears stopped.

Lovin' on her new doll.

London was too fragile to make her stand by Addy in front of the Christmas tree, so Addy did it solo.

Later that morning, all dressed and coloring

Later we went to Gma Sans house where she kindly shared her iPad with Sami and Addy.  We had a delicious brunch there and enjoyed quality time with the family.

Then it was off to my Mom's where we had the nativity.


After throwing a royal fit, Addy was Mary.





Make-up

Calvin dressed as a Harry Potter reindeer

No pictures, but my parents did a really fun game for our presents.  My Mom had a big table set up with all sorts of different food items on it.  Some was for food storage, others were just yummy treats.  She gave each adult a bucket of 100 quarters.  She played the auctioneer.  Attached to each item was an envelope and we learned quickly that their was cash inside those envelopes.  It was either a $10, $20 or a $50.  Jonathan and I walked away with $250 in cash as well as some token food items.  It was really competitive and really fun (because we won the most money). 

And just for the record, Jonathan gave me my first sewing machine, per my request.  I'm ready to be crafty!

December 24, 2010

Merry Christmas!

Christmas Eve

We spent Christmas Eve at my parents with Dani and her family and Alex.  It was fun to be able to talk to my brother Owen and his family celebrating Christmas over in China, but they were definitely missed.

Enjoying a delicious turkey dinner. 
(Yes Dani, you're in the picture)
Hmm, where's London?

Stayed here most the night.

Posing with the new Christmas jammies...London was not happy.

Funny Faces

December 23, 2010

December 23rd

My in-laws have "Christmas Eve" every year on December 23rd.  I love this for many reasons, but mostly because it spreads out the fun before Christmas. 

All the "friends" (as Addy calls them).  So excited to have the Oklahoma Eberhardts with us this year!

The adults enjoying a delicious dinner made by Sandi. 

The Nativity.
Pretty sure their were 3 Marys and Baby Jesus could speak Spanish.  (Soy Tad!)

London didn't last in the nativity long.  I think this is just one time she actually sat still the whole night.  She ended up being the "tourist" in the nativity story.

The anticipated annual arrival of Santa Claus himself!

The kids were thinking, "All right all ready Santa.  Stop talking and show us what you got!"



London even warmed up to him.

This picture doesn't look forced, does it?

Just have to say a big thank you to Pops and Sans for hosting such a fun evening.  We love this tradition and were so happy to spend it with the whole Eberhardt clan!

December 22, 2010

From Caller ID to Facebook


My Dad has always been a technology guru.  I grew up in a home with 20 telephones, including the 3 in the kitchen, 2 in the family room, and the red rotary phone in the unfinished basement..you know, just in case you wanted to hang out in the dark, cold, scary basement and carry on a conversation.  I'm pretty sure we were one of the first families in America to have Caller ID.  I remember being totally amazed at that technology. 

I still remember when the giant double tape ghetto blaster that sat on the kitchen counter was replaced by this new thing called a CD Player.  I think I was in 6th grade.  I can still hear that thing blasting "Love is a Wonderful Thing" by Michael Bolton early in the morning and can still see my Dad dancing to it. 

My Dad had the first "car phone" ever.  It took up the entire center console of his yellow Chevy Blazer (matched the yellow boat, of course).  You had to wind something up in order to make a call on it.  I only saw it in use a couple of times, but I remember being totally amazed that we could call someone from our car. 

Before cell phones became all the rage, there were pagers, remember?  I still remember paging my high school boyfriend, typing in my number, and waiting for him to return my call...that was late 1990s.  Probably a decade earlier, my Dad had a pager.  We would call the pager, leave a 5 second audio message, and hang up.  On my Dad's end, it would beep loudly, then a static-filled audio message would come through...usually saying something like, "Dad, call home."  That's probably when he'd wind up the center console car phone. I have a vivid memory of hearing that pager beep and watching my Dad scramble to whip that pager off his belt and put it up to his ear so he could decipher the static. 

For Christmas as a senior in high school, Santa brought me a first generation Sony Discman.  I thought I was pretty cool.  I even got the car audio tape attachment so I could listen to it while driving my sweet 1989 Honda Accord.  I left on my mission to Japan in 2000.  Mini-discs were all the rage there.  I came home with a sweet electric blue mini-disc player that was never used.  I remember the elders in my district coming to a meeting with a brochure of this Apple iPod, first generation.  They would spend their p-days at the electronics stores checking out the latest and greatest stuff.  They clearly didn't have a clue what was going on in America, because they were the ones that convinced me to get a mini-disc player to take home.  However, despite the mini-disc issue,  Japan really was a good 2-3 years ahead of the States.

Many hours were spent on trains in Japan.  The passengers would board, sit, then immediately pull out their cell phones and start doing stuff.  I always wondered what they were doing and what on earth was so interesting on their phones.  My last companion was Japanese and she had brought her phone with her on the mission to use as her alarm clock.  It was all colorful and played cool alarm music.  She told me that they could write to each other and listen to music on their cell phones. I told her that cell phones weren't like that in America, they just called people.

I returned from my mission in 2002 and got my first cell phone, I was 22 years old.   It was a small Nokia gold/silver brick.  It dialed phone numbers.  Period.  Later that year I returned to Japan and met up with that same Japanese companion who took one look at my cell phone and said acting shocked, "You were right.  It just calls, that's it."

I got my first email address when I was a freshman in college.  I literally watched email and the internet evolve over the course of my college career.  I remember sitting in my apartment bedroom and logging on to my computer and waiting for the dial-up to connect.  That sound, in fact, was a lot like my Dad's static-filled pager message.

So where does this homage to technology come from?  I saw the cover of Time Magazine.  In honor of Mark Zuckerberg, founder of Facebook, Time's Person of the Year for 2010, it got me thinking about how far we've come in just my lifetime. I didn't actually join Facebook until this year...and I've been trying to collect friends ever since.


December 21, 2010

Grandma & Grandpa Great

My Grandma Ber and Grandpa Fuddy (Dan & Berylene Frampton) are the salt of the earth.

My grandma went back to school in her 50s and became a nurse.  At her graduation, the entire nursing class stood and cheered for her.  She has that effect on people.  She was a wonderful nurse.  She would often be found washing patients' hair or feet trying to make them feel better. 

My grandpa is a patriarch and I had the wonderful opportunity to fly back to NJ (while they were on their mission) when I was a senior in high school and receive my patriarchal blessing from my grandpa.  When I was getting ready to leave on my mission to Japan, it was my grandma who looked me straight in the eye and said, "Don't be one of those wussy sister missionaries.  Be tough and be bold."  Yes ma'am.

Grandpa Fuddy married Jonathan and I in the Salt Lake Temple.  He rented temple pants for the ceremony and they were about 4 inches too short...total floods.  He made sure to announce it and let everyone have a laugh before Jonathan and I came into the room.  Our wedding reception was in their beautiful backyard.  After months of working so hard on that yard to get it in tip top shape (all my mother's doing), threatening rain clouds rolled in as we were putting the finishing touches on the outdoor decor.  It started to rain.  My grandpa took a small group of us in his home and called upon heaven to keep the elements at bay until this wedding was over.  The rain stopped.  Many people came through the line wondering how it was not raining there because it was raining at there house just a few minutes away.  A miracle.

My grandparents have served four missions, each for 2 years.  Their first mission was to Morristown, NJ.  I don't think they were home more than 8 months before they left again, this time to Zimbabwe.  They then went on a humanitarian mission to China where they taught English.  My grandpa came home from China with a horrible case of SARS as his souvenir.  It took a while for him to recover, and then they were off again to Russia. 

When Grandpa Fuddy came home from Russia, he wasn't the Grandpa Fuddy we remembered.  He was having a hard time remembering things.  He was later diagnosed with lewy body dementia and over the past 4 years we've seen him rapidly go downhill.  He is still the kindest man I know, now he's more like a little child, and I just have to remind him who I am.  

A few weeks ago Grandma Ber had her hip replaced with a fancy new titanium one.  Because of this, she needed help caring for both her and Grandpa Fuddy.  We had the opportunity to go and hang out with them and I'm so glad that my girls are getting to know these amazing people just a little bit better.  


London having lunch with Grandpa


Addy playing the Wii while grandpa dodged her wild antics (He wanted to sit there.  I asked him multiple times if he wanted to move, he kindly declined.  He likes living on the edge.)




While it's not the grandpa I grew up with, we still enjoy the time we have to spend with him.  Walks to the mailbox, laps around the island to keep him awake, and drives to the store are all new memories that my children will have with their Grandpa Great.

Edit:  Thought I'd post my sister's comment:

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In church on Sunday different members were sharing stories of their family's traditions. A man in my ward, Dan Adams, got up and starting reading this article from a 1988 Ensign about Dan and Berylene Frampton's family traditions. I had forgotten all about that article. I started to cry and pretty much sobbed my way through Sacrament Meeting remembering all of the things you wrote about.


The thing with Grandma and Grandpa is it was never for show. It is the real thing. I know because as we serve them in their home I watch them continue to live the gospel, even now with no public exposure.  I help get their glasses and scriptures so they can sit by each other on the couch and Grandma reads and keeps showing Grandpa where they are. Prayers before every meal, naming eveyone one by one and what they are stuggling with. On and on.

London's Obsession


The stool.


I could take 10 of these pictures a day.  She has realized a whole new freedom that comes from toting this stool around. 

Christmas Advent


I broke down and bought this advent calendar this year from Pottery Barn Kids.  I have loved it from afar in the catalog for years, but have never loved the price tag.  This year, for some reason, I justified the price and bit the bullet...and I'm so glad I did.  Now that Addy is 4, she totally gets this stuff and is super excited every morning to pull out the activity for the day. 

At first I was trying to figure out how I was going to find 25 little presents, but a girl can only handle so much chapstick.  So then my friend Carrie posted on her blog all the activities they were going to do in December and our Activity Advent Calendar was born.  (Thanks Carrie!) 

We've had some fun activities this month and I look forward to this annual tradition at our house.  (Carrie, if you could just continue to list all of your activities at the end of November, it sure makes my brainstorming MUCH easier. 

  Confession:  Sometimes when Addy pulls out the activity for the day and I'm just not feeling like it, I make something else up. 

For the record, Santa does NOT motivate Addy to be any better.  Here was a bit of our conversation yesterday:

Me:  Addy, if you don't listen to what Mom says and you stay on the naughty watch, then Santa will bring you a big black rock called coal to put in your stocking.

Addy:  Well, you need to stop saying that because it's a bad word and I'll put hot sauce in your mouth.
(What?!?  FYI: never have put hot sauce in her mouth, but not a bad idea)

Me:  What is a bad word?

Addy:  (yelling now) Black rock.  If you say that again then I'm not going to do anything you say and I won't let you go to any meetings. 

Me:  (Totally confused and have no idea what to do or say at this point.  Went from trying to persuade my daughter to be obedient to getting yelled at and losing permission from my 4-year-old to go to meetings.)

Sigh. 

This is just one of MANY of these conversations we have had this month.

Any good parenting tips, books, classes? 
I may take up drinking,  just to take the edge off. 

December 18, 2010

Addy's Preschool Christmas Program

 Addy was pretty excited to sing some fun Christmas songs for her preschool program.


When they were done singing, there was a surprise visitor from Santa!


Telling Santa that she wanted "beads and art stuff."


December 15, 2010

Kid Boobies



Driving in the car today Addy was watching The Little Mermaid.

Addy:  Mom, does Arial still have boobies when she becomes a human?

Me:  Yes.

Addy:  If I am Arial for Halloween, can we get me some kid boobies?


December 14, 2010

Dave Ramsey Would Be Proud

I gave Addy an old make-up brush since she's been obsessed with make-up since her dance recital. 

Addy:  Thanks Mom!  Where did you get this?

Me:  I think I got it at the mall.

Addy:  Oh.  (walking a few steps, then turning around)  What's the mall?

Oh what a difference 5 years makes!

December 11, 2010

Addy's Christmas Dance Recital 2010

Addy (all Jon-Benet'ed up) ready for her dance "I've Got the Chicken Pox for Christmas"

Not the frilly costume to keep in the dress-up box, but quite practical...trap door and all.

So 3 days before this recital at her weekly Thursday morning dance class, Addy had a meltdown for no apparent reason.  Even her teacher said, "Wow!  This is so Addy 2009."  She didn't do ANYTHING.  She sat on the floor and sulked and then moved to the side of the room and stood there and then put her hands over her face and cried while they were practicing this dance.  After the very productive hour was over, I packed her up in the car and she was back to her happy self.  I was mad.  I told her she was going to have to show me that dance 4 times before she went to bed, she somehow negotiated me down to 1, but not until the next day when Dad was home. 

She said she didn't need to practice it more than that because she knew the dance.  I would try to help her in places she'd forget, but that would just result in me getting yelled at by my 4-year-old (who's in charge here?!?) saying she didn't need my help, she could do it ALL BY HERSELF!


Well, she showed me.  She got up on stage and she and her cute friend to the right Alyssa, were like the dance class superstars.  They had all the girls looking at them to figure out what came next.  Addy had this smirk on her face like she was saying, "See Mom.  I told you I knew this dance. I do Beyonce...remember?"  I should know better not to mess with this girl.


Got a cool medal from Santa Claus.  She mentioned that she quickly told him (in her loud mouse-like voice) that she had been a good girl yesterday (which is true).  Made me laugh.  Like 1 day of being a good girl is going to get her off "naughty watch"...she thought so...especially if she said it to the big guy himself. 
(This was when I needed one of those cool cameras with the huge lens like the rest of you have)


Cousin Emmy & Addy (who was posed by Aunt Dani) & sidekick London

December 6, 2010

Single Ladies

Addy & Friends wanted to dance to Single Ladies.  There was a little bit of contention over who could be Beyonce, but after Emma claimed the role, Addy & Megan were great in their supporting roles.

Notice the height difference.  Megan on the left is 6 months older than Addy.  Emma in the middle is 13 months older than Addy, yet who's the tallest? 

They did this about 5 times and I laughed (quietly) every time!